You pretty much chat with who you want that's around you. Unlike other dating apps out there, Anomo starts you off with just an avatar. In fact, all of your personal information is locked from the start, so only you can see it. You can play games with other hopefuls and over time, the app matches you with people who share similar interests.
Over time, as you get to know someone better, you can decide to reveal yourself. The app is totally free. Best for low-key dating. CMB wants you to "spend your time on quality matches instead of swiping endlessly. Coffee Meets Bagel is designed for busy singles who are looking to build real connections with little to no effort.
CMB uses an algorithm that takes into consideration basic info like your location, age, ethnicity, height, and religion, plus more nuanced criteria like your social network and interests to pair you with potential matches. You'll need a Facebook account to join. Instead of swiping, browsing, poking, and messaging your way into someone's inbox only to never hear back, this app will send you a potential match every day at noon. Men receive curated matches based on the algorithm and women will only be presented with potential matches called Bagels that have already expressed interest.
Once there's a connection, the app sends you to a private chat room with icebreaker questions to get things started. CMB also follows up to encourage your first date. LGBTQ members are sent preselected potential matches everyday also. Best for empowered women. Bumble Bumble empowers women to make the first move in online dating, while also not receiving unsolicited messages from toxic men.
This dating app will show you random profiles of users so you can swipe left if you aren't interested or right to like them. If and when you both "like" one another: What happens next depends entirely on your sexual orientation. Well, if you're straight the woman always has to make the first move. In the event that she decides not to, the connection completely disappears forever after 24 hours. If you aren't heterosexual, either person can kick-off the conversation.
Six reasons you should consider online dating
Absolutely nothing, unless you want premium features like Bumble Boost, which lets you see everyone who has right-swiped you, extend your matches by another 24 hours, and allows you to Rematch with expired connections. Best free dating app. OkCupid A super popular dating site that has a great free option, inclusive vibes, and a large database of users. Yes A-List - one month: Millions have found dating success on OkCupid and the app sees over 1 million installs per week. In fact, you can see an updated number of people who are using the site right now by clicking here.
Algorithms, formulas, heuristics — the site uses a lot of crazy math stuff to help people find their matches faster. You'll see a percentage rating on each profile you encounter, letting you know the odds of success. You can really be yourself on OkCupid. A basic account is always free. But there are some paid extras you can enjoy if you want a more premium experience.
If you pay for the A-List membership, you can cut out the ads, you get more search options like body type and attractiveness, you can see everyone who likes you, and you can see who reads your messages, among other useful things. There's an Incognito mode that lets you be invisible to everyone on the site unless you like or message them. Best for shy people. Single and Shy Single and Shy is a place for single introverts to meet online to finding a special someone to love.
The site also provides tips for people to overcome their shyness. The site claims that 1, bashful men and women who are looking for dates join daily. I have been to three weddings of people who met on OkCupid in the past two years. I also met my current SO on OkCupid over two years ago. Online dating can be a good idea but it is certainly not a fast-track path to meeting people. It takes a lot of time see below. If you're feeling constrained by your social circle, it is definitely worth it.
As for what site to go on, go to the ones that have the people you want to meet. I am willing to bet at least some of your friends do online dating? What sites are they on? Those are the ones you should be on. Similarly, a lot of people find it awkward when they run across exes' profiles on online dating sites, and it certainly is, but it's also a good sign, since it means that people who you want to date or at least did at one time use the site you're on.
Don't dismiss sites for being free -- the argument that OkCupid makes, and I think it's a good one, is that paid sites want to keep you paying for as long as possible so they make it more alluring to explore but harder to actually meet someone. For instance, they'll show you lots of super attractive people who definitely won't message you back. In theory, at least.
Expect to go on lots of first dates. You may not be used to going on lots of first dates that don't go anywhere, but that's because if you meet people in real life, you know if you have at least some chemistry with them before having gone on ANY dates! But online, your first date is the only chance you have.
LOGGING ON FOR LOVE
So don't invest too much until you meet someone. That also means it is worth meeting people in person sooner rather than later. Since you will go on lots of first dates, try to make them fun. Don't put a lot of pressure on, that will only make you miserable. Instead, why not suggest activities you like to do anyway! Ones that are in public, of course. Coffee shop or bar you've been meaning to check out? Neighborhood you've wanted to visit for a while? This may be a good excuse to try some of those things out. You are a woman I'm assuming? You are under NO obligation to respond to all or even most of the messages you receive.
Only message people back if you are actually interested in potentially meeting them. Most people in your age group, I am led to understand, are on Tinder. I don't think you should dismiss this out of hand. I also want to address a little bit more your concern about people who are just looking to hook up with you. I am a man, so I am very much not the authority on this; that said, based on what I have heard from female friends, I want to explain a little more why I think you shouldn't worry too much about this. There are many women online, too, who are looking for hookups, or who are at least willing to have one-night stands if the opportunity presents itself.
If you make it clear that this isn't you -- mainly by not getting physical for at least the first few dates, and by communicating what you want -- the people who aren't looking for a relationship will invest their energy elsewhere. What's in it for them to put in all this effort pestering you when there are so many other people out there looking for the same thing as they are? Of course, it is still scary to be meeting a stranger from the Internet in person.
Make sure that you meet them for the first time in a public place and don't keep seeing them if you don't trust them. Past that, you will just have to trust your judgment; even the people you meet offline could be creepy, since sadly there aren't any guarantees in this area of life. I met my husband online, and it's been a great marriage now in its' second decade.
I recommend "lurking" on a site at first: Create a profile, but only include the minimum information and no picture. This will minimize the people who will contact you, which will give you a bit of breathing room. Then look around a bit. Do you find a lot of guys you'd be interested in learning more about in your area? Do most of the guys seem to be looking for a LTR or a hookup? How well are you able to discern their personality and preferences from their profile?
Check out several sites, then stick with the one or two you feel most comfortable with. Just get comfortable knowing how to sort through the profiles and find ones you are interested in. Then you can go back in and add more information and a picture to your profile. I agree that meeting someone before you become highly invested is a good idea, but I don't think you need to limit yourself strictly to people in your area. I married a man from 2, miles away from where I lived and it worked just fine. We visited each other at our homes in both places after about six months of online and talking on the phone, spent a lot of time talking about what we each wanted our future to look like, and we found we were in agreement on where we wanted to live.
The perfect guy could be out there looking for you - good luck, enjoy and have fun! I've had friends who originally met through OKCupid eventually get married and are still happy. Me, I found the effort to reward ratio wasn't there. I met my partner five years ago while volunteering together. It worked well for us because we already had a shared activity. I would still say that online dating has plenty of people you would probably like! It's just that I'd rather invest that time in being out and about. Because that works for me. But again, if you'd rather be online, there a ton of people who are also online and who are nice everyday people!
More than a ton! Well, I met my wife on Match, so I think it works okay. I tried most of the available sites back when I was looking and have a few lessons learned that may or may not be useful to you. Best sites in my experience were Match and OKCupid. They had this really irritating "guided communication" process that was supposedly going to handhold you through meeting someone, but mostly just got in the way. There's also a free site called Plenty of Fish that might be worth a look.
There was a lot of overlap - I wasn't the only person on more than one site, but they also seemed to have their own sort of personalities and broad demographics that tended to clump there. Paid site, so people willing to pay when there are free alternatives available. White collar, educated, perhaps in their 30s - slightly older than Free site, very well put together. Seemed to attract a somewhat younger crowd than Match, like tech savvy urban sophisticates in their 20s.
Paid site, Christians and other wholesome types. People who weren't put off by that infuriating guided communications business. I have no idea Less educated, maybe a little older. Regardless of which site s you choose, my big lesson was that the ability to flirt and have fun chatting back and forth has no bearing whatsoever on whether you'll click in person. So don't spend much time messaging back and forth. A few messages to make sure they don't give off a " Debbie who loves cats " vibe.
Beyond that, you're wasting your time and quite possibly creating an imaginary person on the other end, who isn't going to really be the person you're falling for when you finally meet them. And again, yes, there are good people out there who want something real. Their match algorithm is scarily good, with the caveat that you have to put effort into answer questions 'correctly' - skip questions liberally if they seem ambiguous or badly worded or whatever, check ALL of the answers you'd find acceptable not just the absolute best answer sometimes there really is just one acceptable answer of course , make sure to answer questions from every category don't be shy about the sex ones!
However I do have friends who do date men and still have similarly great experiences. And on the other hand I know a lot of people who don't have good experiences, there is certainly some element of luck involved! And the people you really want to date might just not be on the site, after all posted by lisp witch at As others have said, it seems to depend wildly on where you are, and what you're looking for. Not worth the money, hard to find actual people who respond, sketchy company who will try to screw you with auto-renews and add-ons. Seemed to have a bunch of people looking for hookups, few for actual relationships.
I recommend avoiding this! Seemed to be fairly legitimate, although you can't just browse, you have to take what they give you. Site seems to skew heavily towards older-than-you-are-now, Christian, ready-to-get-married-now people. I enjoyed it well enough, but I'm not the target demographic, so my options were very limited.
Very easy to check in with at whatever frequency you want to; never seems to pressure you in any way, and always seems to have new faces. Huge variety of people, but the ones I've talked to and met with have been great matches. Their system for matching you up based on answers to a bunch of questions seems to work real well. For context, I'm an early's straight man who is definitely not looking for hookups. If you are especially concerned about safety, I recommend you tell someone where you are meeting.
When it comes to meeting or giving out information, be as cautious as your good sense tells you, and then be a little more cautious than that. Nth-ing that I met my wife through an on-line dating site. Curiously it was a site described to me as "the K-Mart of on-line dating. We married six years ago, so I know nothing about what the various sites are like now. E-harmony advertised their scientific matching process and blah-blah-blah. I specified that I was interested in a relationship that could at least possibly lead to marriage and family.
I made it clear that I'm a fairly quiet, stay-at-home personality. Among other things, they tried to pair me with a guy who performs as a female impersonator in local bars. You can probably do as well in the free sites. I haven't done the online dating thing much, and I wasn't a fan while I did it, but anyway: Tinder doesn't have a great reputation, but that's where you'll meet age appropriate guys.
As Tinder's gotten more mainstream, it's also gotten a lot less hook-up only and more like an actual dating site. Like, "I know you probably don't date forty-year-olds. A lot of my friends are on Tinder, I know college kids who use it, and if I were single, I'd probably give it a shot. OkCupid has declined in popularity.
Almost every single person I know uses online dating, from just-got-to-the-city year-olds to divorced guys in their 50s. You are guaranteed to get exposed to more men and a wider range of men than you possibly could IRL. But it takes a lot of patience and you need to put out there what you want in return. I also agree with the author that getting addicted to it is hugely dangerous, just being addicted to FB, your iPhone, etc. Not all men are like what is described in this article. Nor are all women the cliches that are easy to think. I'm a shorter guy, and all it takes is patience and trying to not get upset by how lame us humans can be.
I don't put up how much I make which is a lot because it automatically helps weed out the women I would never want to date. Little things like that can help. I'm often surprised by profiles I read, then see the woman doing some of the very things she complains about guys doing. Another is to not set up impossible expectations based on the false romantic tinsel that we all grow up on in this country of ours. That's not a bad thing at all; it's reality. Once you accept that, you have a better shot at both online dating and staying with someone you meet.
People window shop forever online, which is the biggest problem with it. People also think that there's always something better than what they have, something better just around the corner. This is a basic human condition, unfortunately, but it can be worked around. I've had a few truly amazing relationships from women I met online. They didn't work out but we're all still friends, and there's no difference between the amount of breakups and divorces on the offline vs.
I'd been to different online sites since , and on my first year of being in there lets say I did found a few real men, some of them are my good friends. But I am not looking for friends, I am looking for a Boyfriend, but all I got was false hope and scams and lies. So I minimize my logging in to the dating sites and on I met a guy.
He is a nice guy and a member of a Christian Community. Though he is not into social media sites our communication is kind of old fashioned way. He sent me a post card last year for my birthday, and we still talked with each other until now through text message or email. I don't hope for the real one between us because I might get disappointed, if life favors one day and it will come true I will be greatful. But if not it will be fine with me. Love comes when you least expect it. I run and own my own business and I study aswell but I always find a balance for a social life.
I have always tried in relationships but it's usually after months I truly find out who those men are truly like then it ends up in a break up because it was a lie. Advertising of dating sites is bs and should check their members better. It's here to stay whether we want those changes it brings or not. So I'm glad to see all this conversation and wish more than 1 in 5 long lasting relationships were people meeting online. I loved the slow nurturing way of old fashioned dating. But times change and now we do internet dating. If you're expecting a text message, it's still a kind of "date. No substitute for eye contact which can tell you all you need to know.
If you go into the online dating thing, just know you're taking a chance and that the imagination is much more active than reality is. Nice looking people are not always as nice as they look on the outside and getting to know someone is not as easy as sending off a text message. Our society needs to be comfortable to be single or you can't be comfortable with someone else as well. Most "men" in "real" life just want to hook up with a girl so he can bang her that same night.
If it's such a concern, then why make it possible? In this day and age, technology has advanced rapidly, so why not use it? It's perfectly alright to go on Facebook using a smartphone, so why shouldn't it be ok to meet someone online and have a relationship with them? It sucks that you're apart, but from an emotional point of view, it can be life changing.
If you arrange to meet up at some point, that would kick ass. In this day and age, it's not such a big deal. I met someone too that I'd like to meet. Doesn't matter if you meet in "real" life or not, what matters is that you trust each other and bond with one another.
I wish I read this two years ago when I was going through a bad patch of dating online. Sadly where I live they are no men so the only choice I had was to go online. But after three disastrous meet ups I would never consider doing that again. I'm happier alone and if I'm destined to be alone then so be it. Excellent hub and very good valid points. Yes, it's still best to meet someone in the real world by doing something you enjoy -- playing golf, taking a cooking class, reading at the library, or performing in community theatre.
Online dating definitely favors those who are attractive and extroverted. If you're an older women 40 plus , it's especially disheartening because the men your age want someone 20 years younger! I myself never tried the online dating scene but I think the bar scene was just as bad. I love what you shared about people always looking for "attractive" people. This tends to be how society rules the world.
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I think people are much more fascinating when they allow themselves to just be who they are. If you can't find people that want to be with you, do a self examination. If there are changes that better you, meaning, you ditch the negative thinking that drives people away, then make the change. Don't ever change who you are, just because you think you aren't good looking enough. It's too bad that the guys who've had bad experiences with online dating can't somehow meet the ladies who've also had the same bad experiences online!
Where can good single men and women find each other if they're not venturing online? Women stay with men that abuse them and treat them like shit, its almost as if they want that, id rather be single than date some ratchet masochest or some woman that thinks they're better than me because they got a lil money. Thanks for writing this article. Bottom line, online dating is not what it was when some of these commenters met their loves. If you have a brain and are not looking for a hookup online dating can damage your view of society.
It would be nice if more people let the few good people that are seriously seeking relationships to get out of their houses and stop waiting for an email saying here I am. Thought you had read my mind. What an interesting take on this subject I'm just beginning to forage my way into the world of dating again and I'm not really sure where to begin. I guess online sites are NOT the way to go huh? I think you are right.. Online dating is a very bad idea. Almost everyone is fake. I always tried to stay away from online dating sites. I didn't blame you. I simply said that "if" this is true then There are tons of people on these sites who are impatient and get bored with whatever "get to know you" strategy exists and want to quickly move to face to face.
Others don't put effort into asking questions that might reveal something about the person's character and are more interested in how funny he is or whether or not he also likes to go hiking. This certainly can account for the negative experiences a person has had on dating sites. It's your job to figure out if that's you, not mine. Most people have difficulty honestly evaluating themselves to try to figure out how much of their negative experiences in life is something they can actually control and fix.
I just don't think it's a very balanced assessment. The upside is that I don't think the majority of your readers are necessarily looking for a balanced assessment. Humans love to commiserate. In my opinion, sometimes what we need isn't what we want. I'm sorry you feel that my hub is "arrogant. I do not write hubs to tell people what to do, they are free to do as they wish and even if I did, so what?
People can make up their own minds. The point of this hub is to share my experiences with online dating that show the uglier side of it. I have a right to do that. I also find it interesting that you essentially blame me for my bad experiences. Did you read my profiles? Did you monitor my actions on these websites? Because if you did, then you would be qualified to judge my "efforts" and why I had the experience I did. There definitely are men online who are looking for an actual relationship.
I was one of them. I met someone online and we are happily married now with 3 kids. I would argue that the quality of the candidates online is no worse than that found out in the "real world". Online sites give you an opportunity to vet the other person before you meet, which I found to be incredibly valuable. This works in your favor, because people who are just trying to have sex won't have the patience for significant back and forth emails or the wade in slowly model you find at eHarmony.
If you're not putting effort into vetting your "candidates" then that may be a significant reason why your experience was so bad. This is a great thing in disguise. In the dating world, the sooner you find out about a person's character flaws the better! When you catch one lying or being generally shallow or scummy, say "thank you" and walk away! They just did you a huge favor! Instructions on how to write an interesting profile that catches someone's attention is not at all the same thing as instructions on how to be someone else. It's just not the same thing. If those instructions bleed into emails, phone calls, and face to face then that's problematic.
If it just applies to making a good profile then what's the harm in that? Dating online is not for everyone. Rejection can certainly come at a pretty fast clip because you have so many more potential candidates.
Why Online Dating Doesn’t Work For Most Guys
In a bar or in life in general , you are rejected just as many times. You just don't see it or feel it.
But, if you are the kind of person that recognizes that people walk away for all sorts of reasons including their own brokeness, you will be less affected by that and this model will work for you. My problem with this article is the message that online dating is for no one.
I think this is a very arrogant statement. It would be better to let people find their own path. I would rather see you share your experience without deciding for them what to do. Hopefully that makes sense. I didn't ever lie in my profile and I actually do look like my pictures in "real life"… With that said is this…. I'm a 31 year old male. It seems many women have a "cyber bubble ego".
Meaning that if there not interested they won't message you back. Which is pretty rude, considering most women would NEVER deny you like that in real life, nor would they even get the amount of attention they are getting online once they step out there front door. It's a security complex of sorts. They like the attention there getting from guys.
I'm 6'1' in very good shape. Masters degree, great job and have my life together well. The dates Ive been on were ALL jokes. Within the first 15 minutes the women were already lying about something. One said she was 28 years old, ended up being 35 years old and still married living with her husband. Go figure, meet this girl up for Sushi. She looked like her picture all was well. Planned on doing something after lunch. When the bill arrives she leaves to the bathroom for over 25 minutes no joke I end up paying the bill.
She finally comes out and says "ooohhhh my girlfriend said she needs to meet up with me" I need to go to her house… Well she left her I-phone on the table and I could see her text messages as she was going through her purse. Online dating is a pathetic joke. Seems like it's for desperate people who are lazy in all honesty being blunt. I realized the signs to finally remove myself from online dating and do it the real and right way.
I have found online dating to be inconsistent and mostly frustrating. It's interesting how women who write so positively of themselves find themselves on these websites for months, if not years. For the person who is genuine, honest and is truly interested in finding ONLY one person, it's a daunting task. Women seem to love and thrive on all the attention and if they're narcissistic, well, they're in heaven. For the simple man hoping to meet someone, they have to 'compete' with numerous others for women who would normally not get all the attention in a non-online dating avenue.
One women mentioned that she didn't like all the attention because she couldn't imagine the 30 guys standing in front of her at one time who emailed her that day alone! It's superficial and used by most men and women as an ego boast with artificial ramifications. All a woman has to do is place a pic with herself with puckered lips and wham-o, hundreds of idiots will comment. What is most hurtful is to find out that a women who you believed was only dating you, is still maintaining a profile and enjoying the attention. It's artificial and creates a false-sense of confidence thinking that just because many people view your profile or 'want to meet you' that you are now the talk of the town.
I did meet a women online and dated for several months, only to find out that she still maintained an active profile and had over emails present when she accidently shared a pic from an email on her account. Trust is everything in a relationship and with all the social media and tricks people play hiding information from those they are involved with, it's a nightmare being in the dating world of modern technology. Just as you can meet a liar or a guy only looking for sex at a bar, work etc. Online is a bit of a minefield. People do lie or 'exaggerate' shall we say.
I had dates where the guys said they were 'intelligent, tall, witty, charming, good looking, funny'. Some are just plain odd, never had girlfriends, they would have no chance in a bar, so you have to wonder why they are online. You would think it was easy, it does all the work for you pictures, interests, no awkward opening line.
But guys mess around too. Some endlessly view your profile, don't have any text or pictures, wink or don't make the first move. Then you exchange and couple of emails and they disappear! You want to look attractive and interesting, guys just make smutty comments or ask you out for a drink without really getting to know you.
Shame there isn't a way to filter less serious people. Especially when you are paying for the privilege. I'm a smart, attractive, funny, easy going, brunette with a lot to offer, but I don't get that much attention. Guess guys are going for the younger, easy blonde bimbo types. I am looking for a relationship not sex or casual.
What has happened to men I wonder? Excuse me, but I didn't choose to meet up with someone to have a one-night stand Does a woman ask to be raped? I am not blaming men, but rather warning women that not everything is as it seems on these dating sites based on my own personal experience. Men do that too, they go for the hotties and complain they don't get responses. Both genders are at fault. Sorry to hear about your experience Linda, but even when you meet the old fashioned way, you still need to be wary until you feel certain you know the other person well!
You are spot on with every observation you've made. I have experienced ALL of that and more with on-line dating websites. I have done the long-distance thing and ended up discovering down the road that "my boyfriend" was "dating" 5 other women long-distance , as well as sleeping with several women living in close proximity to him , all while LIVING with a woman!!! I am for meeting the "old fashioned way" I met my wife online 6 years ago. In fact it's reported that 1 in 5 new relationships began online.
Online dating is just another option or tool for meeting new people. The internet did not invent liars and cheaters! The same people you'd meet online also go to the grocery store, beaches, parks, concert halls, nightclubs, universities, malls, and churches. At the end of the day you are responsible for the choices you make.
Why Online Dating Doesn’t Work For Most Guys (And What To Do About It)
Don't blame the tool! Another common mistake people make is they assume all dating sites are the same. That's like believing staying at a Motel 6 is the same as staying at The Ritz Carlton hotel because they both offer cable TV and have beds. You have to do your research. Avoid the "free" or super cheap sites if you want to increase your odds of meeting a "quality" person. Last but not least take your time and get to know people.
Use the same commonsense you'd use with meeting a stranger anywhere else. Ok so you think that there are liars only online, and that there are no liars in real life? Have you tried a dating site? It works for some, not for others. If your ego is fragile, I suppose it is not the best avenue to meet a potential partner. I never really was vested in how a date turned out. Just tried to be open. I had a couple of nice dates. One guy decided to go home and take a nap when I told him I didn't do casual sex. The dates turned out that there was no mutual interest, or the guy was interested but I was not.
A couple of guys lied about their height. I am an attractive woman and in good shape, so I was in pretty high demand. But, I didn't meet anyone who was a good fit. Although, a couple of the guys were really nice, and one will most likely remain my friend. If you truly don't go in with the agenda that this HAS to be 'the one' and you can not get caught up in fantasy and just meet people, it is fine. Ultimately, I ended up getting back together with my ex boyfriend neither of us ever got over the other , so my experiment with on-line dating came to an end.
I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss it. It is just another way to meet a person, and if you aren't in an area or profession where it is easy to meet people, it can work. I've never felt the need for it, but I understand what you are saying. By the same token, perhaps I should stay away from Hubpages as well? There is no room in my life for liars or deceivers.
Life's just too short for that kind of enterprise. Actually, many women tend to put younger, thinner photos of themselves up I've talked to men who have had these experiences, and I asked them what the women said after they saw that clearly the woman lied about her weight, age, etc. They told me that these women thought that maybe the guys could get past their appearance and like them based on the conversations they had previously or something along those lines. Sadly, nobody likes being lied to and the fact that the guy had been lied to on something as important and woman's appearance, it's no wonder guys get equally discouraged from using these sites.
I have never done the online dating thing so I am not sure what goes on there. I'll just ask because I do not know: If they do, I bet it is their very best one. Men are visual creatures and most of them are short-sighted enough to choose a woman based solely upon her physical beauty. Knowing the fairer sex as I do Perhaps women should use an avatar instead of their real photo to force men into seeing what they're really about. Force a man to fall in love with their words, thoughts, character, and spirit. When the time is right, reward him with a photograph and see where that goes. All men certainly do not think the same way, but you've never been a woman on these dating websites and experienced what I have I don't think it is fair to assume that all men think the same way.
It is a very cynical approach. Although some may think that I don't believe that all do. Other than that you made some really valid points. Maybe online dating and online relationships don't work. You really nailed it with this article from the men thinking we're all there for a hook-up to the disappointment if there's not instant chemistry. It's quite tragic really because ultimately men are passing on women who are a really great catch! I pray that I never let you down and that I will be a source of strength and inspiration for you in the days to come.
CJ, it can be a good thing and a bad thing to trust people too soon and to always try to see the good in people, I know because I tend to fall into that category as well. Thank you so much for your kind words, I truly appreciate them! I will certainly follow you as well! A well-written and thought-provoking work of art. You gave us all wise words to live by I only wish I had read this sooner. I tend to be a trusting soul, but have had the "hard slap of reality" applied to my tender face on more than one occasion.
I signed on to "follow" you just now, thinking I already had a while ago. For some reason the silly follow button would not allow me to leave you fan mail. That being the case, I just wanted to say that I appreciate your perspectives and want to thank you for all your classy comments and Hubs. You are a breath of fresh air.
I am not sure if "following" a man is a violation of your personal policy, but if you ever want to take a walk of the wild side by following a man I will reserve a seat of honor at my fire, especially for you. Thank you epigrmman, those are really kind words and I appreciate your input! Life experience can be very valuable, whether that experience is good or bad, sometimes I find the bad experience to be the most valuable!
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